Comments on: because I Love You mah

By: Russian woman Maria

Russian woman Maria — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:49:45 +0000

It is a very touching story! Your son is very nice I believe. Yes, it is a usual problem in families with 2 children, when a new kid arrears, the elder one feel less attention from the site of parents. It does not mean that he does not love his younger brother or sister, but still he suffers. It is very difficult for children and parents both, and in thus situation parents should try to pay equal attention to their both children. May be you should ask your elder child to you with his sister, try to do everything together. He will take care of his sister and will feel that you are near him. Besides, I am sure that when he will grow older he will not fell revenge. I wish you luck with your wonderful children!

By: Chew Lee

Chew Lee — Thu, 18 Mar 2010 15:16:33 +0000

I try to give the elder one some attention too. Luckily, my girl is very attached to Terry, so he handles her more often.

By: leeyen

leeyen — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:20:23 +0000

nod! nod! nod! i just wrote this feeling down on my post: I’m so sorry! not long ago!we are in the same boat again! hehehe!

By: michelle

michelle — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:57:59 +0000

Yeah, it is a looong way. At least you have yr MIL in the house to help out. Hang in there!

By: Angeleyes

Angeleyes — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:27:13 +0000

I think I still have a loooooong way to go… kids will have jealousy as they grow so I hope I can better manage my attention.

By: Yeapies

Yeapies — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 07:50:59 +0000

haihs.. not easy being a mum hor? Until now I’m still struggling with that (equal to both). I felt so bad that last time I use to even come up with trial papers and drill Zoey and spend time coaching her before her exams. But now, I’ll have to let hubby do it if he is in town or just let her “rot” on her own. Sometimes she will just pop in the room while I’m feeding and putting JoJo to bed, I will just shoo her out bcz JoJo get very distracted and will refuse to sleep. I know Zoey is just trying to catch back those lost time spending with me. It breaks my heart when I see her going out with her head looking down and a dissapointed face. I do feel like a bad mum most of the time. =(