Comments on: Irresponsible parents! http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/ Thu, 24 May 2012 07:43:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Shooi http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10349 Shooi Mon, 20 Apr 2009 05:46:25 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10349 SIgh...got all sorts of parents in this world. I know of 1 mother who purposely go on vacation when bb is 1 mth old coz her maternity leave not over yet and she don want to take care of bb. Even now, 2 kids, when her husb go to work on weekend, she will follow him go out - shopping alone so she don have to take care of the kids at home. Shoois last blog post..<a href="http://justmytots.com/2009/04/14/mou-tai-chi/" rel="nofollow">Protected: Mou tai chi</a> SIgh…got all sorts of parents in this world.

I know of 1 mother who purposely go on vacation when bb is 1 mth old coz her maternity leave not over yet and she don want to take care of bb.

Even now, 2 kids, when her husb go to work on weekend, she will follow him go out – shopping alone so she don have to take care of the kids at home.

Shoois last blog post..Protected: Mou tai chi

]]> By: KIttyCat http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10279 KIttyCat Tue, 14 Apr 2009 01:19:08 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10279 Very sad news indeed especially when some people are trying sooooooo hard to have a baby. Yet others don't value the precious child that they have been blessed with... KIttyCats last blog post..<a href="http://apregnantpause.net/2009/04/13/whats-wrong-with-you/" rel="nofollow">What’s wrong with you?</a> Very sad news indeed especially when some people are trying sooooooo hard to have a baby. Yet others don’t value the precious child that they have been blessed with…

KIttyCats last blog post..What’s wrong with you?

]]> By: Angeleyes http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10270 Angeleyes Sun, 12 Apr 2009 13:13:04 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10270 Irene, I apologize if the post did make you feel bad about yourself for not being able to be with your girl as well as breastfed her. I guessed you read it on the wrong note? I was just angry at this particular mother for leaving her baby to a stranger for such a long time while she go and enjoy herself.... like Barb said, she might have PND but that does not mean she has to be away from her child for so long and in a far away land? Like I mentioned in the first para, some parents left their kids to someone else care as they need to work so those are being forced by circumstances. For the breastfeeding issue, I guess you are not well equipped with information or support hence you failed but then again, you can't blame yourself... so what you need to is be prepared when you're expecting your 2nd child. Barb, Well, it was a little vague but to have a scenario like this and being reported must have some credibility in some ways. Sharine, I am glad things worked out on your end. So happy to see you've successfully bf your lil boy. debbie, Yeah, same as me! That was why I never ask anyone to help me take care of Darrius until he was 2+. Even that, I only asked my mom to help me keep an eye on him for a few hours.... and I will call to check every hour. :P Stephanie, I feel so sorry for these poor babies but I guess in this modern time, many parents relied on external help as compared to our parents' time. Last time they can handle a few kids all by themselves but I have seen some young mommies who can't even handle a single kid on their own. Well, maybe they are born with a silver spoon in their mouth. :P Sharon, Yeah, two very sad cases. I don't mean that being SAHM/WAHM will not have such cases if the mothers are not prepared with child caring. I knew a few high flying career women who achieved balanced working and family life. I guess it is all boils down to each mother's characters and personality. chinnee, yeah... no words can describe my sadness... imagine those who are desperately trying to have a baby or can't have any and news of these careless parents really break our hearts. Anna, Well... I don't think most of us blogging mommies ever leave our kids alone with someone else more and a few days! Some who has to work, they don't have a choice. The news might be vague but having being reported, there must be some very strong evidence. Angeline, I can understand how you feel. sting, yeap, I agree with you... there are a lot of parents who are mentally not prepared. Irene,
I apologize if the post did make you feel bad about yourself for not being able to be with your girl as well as breastfed her. I guessed you read it on the wrong note? I was just angry at this particular mother for leaving her baby to a stranger for such a long time while she go and enjoy herself…. like Barb said, she might have PND but that does not mean she has to be away from her child for so long and in a far away land? Like I mentioned in the first para, some parents left their kids to someone else care as they need to work so those are being forced by circumstances. For the breastfeeding issue, I guess you are not well equipped with information or support hence you failed but then again, you can’t blame yourself… so what you need to is be prepared when you’re expecting your 2nd child.

Barb,
Well, it was a little vague but to have a scenario like this and being reported must have some credibility in some ways.

Sharine,
I am glad things worked out on your end. So happy to see you’ve successfully bf your lil boy.

debbie,
Yeah, same as me! That was why I never ask anyone to help me take care of Darrius until he was 2+. Even that, I only asked my mom to help me keep an eye on him for a few hours…. and I will call to check every hour. :P

Stephanie,
I feel so sorry for these poor babies but I guess in this modern time, many parents relied on external help as compared to our parents’ time. Last time they can handle a few kids all by themselves but I have seen some young mommies who can’t even handle a single kid on their own. Well, maybe they are born with a silver spoon in their mouth. :P

Sharon,
Yeah, two very sad cases. I don’t mean that being SAHM/WAHM will not have such cases if the mothers are not prepared with child caring. I knew a few high flying career women who achieved balanced working and family life. I guess it is all boils down to each mother’s characters and personality.

chinnee,
yeah… no words can describe my sadness… imagine those who are desperately trying to have a baby or can’t have any and news of these careless parents really break our hearts.

Anna,
Well… I don’t think most of us blogging mommies ever leave our kids alone with someone else more and a few days! Some who has to work, they don’t have a choice. The news might be vague but having being reported, there must be some very strong evidence.

Angeline,
I can understand how you feel.

sting,
yeap, I agree with you… there are a lot of parents who are mentally not prepared.

]]> By: sting http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10269 sting Sun, 12 Apr 2009 07:21:15 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10269 its quite sad about the bb that starved to death... not sure how much is true but it's does goes to show that some people are not ready to be parents..sigh... stings last blog post..<a href="http://magicalmilestone.blogspot.com/2009/04/yummy-egg-tarts.html" rel="nofollow">Yummy Egg Tarts</a> its quite sad about the bb that starved to death… not sure how much is true but it’s does goes to show that some people are not ready to be parents..sigh…

stings last blog post..Yummy Egg Tarts

]]> By: Angeline http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10268 Angeline Sun, 12 Apr 2009 03:19:18 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10268 F***! I'm sorry, please don't mind my language! But when it comes to reading stuff like this I can have so much anger, if converted to strength - I can rip off a cow's head with my bare hands! Damn these people!!! Damn! And guess what?! I know of such a mother! Damn! Angelines last blog post..<a href="http://allaboutyourchild.com/others/happy-easter-everyone" rel="nofollow">Happy Easter Everyone!</a> F***! I’m sorry, please don’t mind my language!
But when it comes to reading stuff like this I can have so much anger, if converted to strength – I can rip off a cow’s head with my bare hands!
Damn these people!!! Damn! And guess what?! I know of such a mother! Damn!

Angelines last blog post..Happy Easter Everyone!

]]> By: whoisbaby http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10267 whoisbaby Sat, 11 Apr 2009 21:33:33 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10267 i don't think i can leave my son with anyone even if we are goin for vacation, i will bring him too. like mommy to chumsy said, the report is kinda vague, we are not sure if it is 100% true. but yet it is a sad news. i don’t think i can leave my son with anyone even if we are goin for vacation, i will bring him too. like mommy to chumsy said, the report is kinda vague, we are not sure if it is 100% true. but yet it is a sad news.

]]> By: chinnee http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10266 chinnee Sat, 11 Apr 2009 15:58:54 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10266 very kesian hor...sigh....so hard only give birth can lost a baby jst like that. very kesian hor…sigh….so hard only give birth can lost a baby jst like that.

]]> By: 3lilangels http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10265 3lilangels Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:47:10 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10265 That was really sad to read. I guess the main point for both stories is that the parents decided to enjoy themselves instead of taking care of their babies - first story the parents went for vacation, and the second, drinking binge. It's different from those who couldn't take care of the baby due to work, outstation or otherwise. Unless it was affordable, it would have been more irresponsible to quit their jobs. I'm just thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be a SAHM. That was really sad to read.

I guess the main point for both stories is that the parents decided to enjoy themselves instead of taking care of their babies – first story the parents went for vacation, and the second, drinking binge. It’s different from those who couldn’t take care of the baby due to work, outstation or otherwise. Unless it was affordable, it would have been more irresponsible to quit their jobs.

I’m just thankful that I’m fortunate enough to be a SAHM.

]]> By: Stephanie Kok http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10264 Stephanie Kok Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:23:45 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10264 i wont have peace of mind to let other people take care of my young baby...thats why i quit my job. those parents that never remember that they have a child and let them die of starvation is cruel! alcohol really can kill a person... it is really sad and disappointing to read such a bad news about young baby in the care of nanny and it is very important that if parents really need a nanny services, they should hire a qualified one. there are so many cases that baby died in the hand of nanny! and yet people still dont learn from this mistake! sigh... Stephanie Koks last blog post..<a href="http://www.lifeadventurez.com/?p=1921" rel="nofollow">We are going to Shenzhen soon!</a> i wont have peace of mind to let other people take care of my young baby…thats why i quit my job.

those parents that never remember that they have a child and let them die of starvation is cruel! alcohol really can kill a person…

it is really sad and disappointing to read such a bad news about young baby in the care of nanny and it is very important that if parents really need a nanny services, they should hire a qualified one.

there are so many cases that baby died in the hand of nanny! and yet people still dont learn from this mistake! sigh…

Stephanie Koks last blog post..We are going to Shenzhen soon!

]]> By: debbie http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-10263 debbie Fri, 10 Apr 2009 06:12:12 +0000 http://www.ramblingmoo.com/2009/04/09/irresponsible-parents/#comment-10263 don't say to give babysitter/ nanny, my children was under my mom's care and I don't even feel safeguard. Indeed, I don't have a peaceful night but to worry how are their conditions. Just wonder how a mommy can be so cruel to their own child. Sad, sad ... don’t say to give babysitter/ nanny, my children was under my mom’s care and I don’t even feel safeguard. Indeed, I don’t have a peaceful night but to worry how are their conditions.

Just wonder how a mommy can be so cruel to their own child. Sad, sad …

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